i got to attend minnewebcon again this year because i’m a lucky girl!

whitney hess was this year’s morning keynote speaker. she spoke about user research, but some of the thoughts i jotted down can apply to any job:

• Empathy builds empires.
• In order to solve a problem, get away from your desk. Get out into the world: explore, learn, understand.
• Talk to people about something you’re trying to understand until you stop hearing new things — then analyze and process.
• See the problems that other people don’t see (and be part of the solution).

when whitney flipped up a slide about soft skills a ux researcher needs to have, i found myself wondering if i have these skills and bring them to my professional (and personal!) life. i would like to think i do, but i could get better in some situations.

He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.
- Nietzsche

after lunch, i attended a session hosted by tonya oaks smith in which she prompted us to think about our own communication networks. we are agents of change, but who do we know as opinion leaders? who can help us get our message out into the world?

this was right around the time that i started to realize that i needed to stop being my usual quiet self and get chatting with folks — networking, man. i often let my antisocial homebody-ness take over my brain and i forget that talking to strangers can be a good thing. then tonya pointed me towards a recent blog post she wrote — networking doesn’t have to have a defined expectation! networking is just getting to know people, finding people who have similar interests as you. maybe someday you can help each other, but at the beginning it is just for fun.

have more fun!

and then i went to abbey tosic’s session about standing out and moving up.

• don’t be afraid to brag — no one will be a better advocate for yourself than you will be.
  (related: always have an answer for that dreaded small-talk question, “what have you been up to?”)
• figure out what’s holding you back — then conquer it! one success brings confidence to create more success.
• don’t forget to include the things that bring you joy on your “to do” list.
• get out of your comfort zone more often.

“If you’re not feeling a little uncomfortable, you’re probably not pushing hard enough.”

at the happy hour that night, my friend, bertine, and i were talking about sessions we could present. what topics are we confident enough about to share with everyone else? because being an active part of a local (maybe someday global?!) team of web professionals makes me feel excited. (even just writing about this little personal journey i had on monday is making me feel excited.)

and then i asked the geek girls for their autographs on their new book and they remembered me* despite brief meetings in the past and i didn’t want to go home because then i was over-the-moon excited. (i can easily get starry-eyed about people i think are amazing, but hopefully i can also maintain composure in their presence.)

* i should note that meghan remembered me because of my twitter name, @pork_chop, which actually pleases me even more after all of this inspiration. it just reinforces that my personal brand is working! i’m doing something right so far, antisocial or not.

1. What did you do in 2011 that you’d never done before?
   I got to see a little bit of California’s wine country! So lovely, I want to go back.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
   I don’t usually make real resolutions, but in 2012 I’m going to continue improving my domestic diva-ness: canning my own food and sewing my own quilt.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
   My friend, Erin, had her daughter, Lillian, last New Year’s Eve.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
   Jason’s uncle (aka Dad #2), Fred, passed away in August. My mom’s uncle, Roger, passed away in September.
5. What countries did you visit?
   I decided to stay in the US this year… (I should use my passport more.)
6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?
   Paint on the walls in my home, a comfortable crafting room (“lady town”), and my dream bathroom. We have a lot of housework to do in 2012! (And thanks to my generous siblings, we have a very good head-start with our home improvement funds.)
7. What date(s) from 2011 will remain etched your memory, and why?
   Over the 4^th of July weekend I photographed a very lovely half-Indian, half-Scottish wedding. August 21^st was the day Uncle Fred lost his battle with cancer. July 29^th was the day Jason closed on the house. (There were a lot of good days mixed in with bad days this year.)
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
   Advancing my career as a web chick (aka web developer)!
9. What was your biggest failure?
   Not paying off more debt.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
    Excellent timing: I was diagnosed with an ear infection about two days prior to my insurance ending with my previous employer — and I would’ve had to wait another month for my insurance with my new employer to kick in!
11. What was the best thing you bought?
    Movers really helped me out mid-August (as did my fantastic brother-in-law).
12. Where did most of your money go?
    I’m honestly not sure — a lot of little things really add up, I guess.
13. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
    Moving into the house with the man I love! Also, becoming more of a domestic diva: cooking for Thanksgiving dinner with friends, canning, gardening (next year), knitting, and sewing.
14. What song(s) will always remind you of 2011?
    Cloud Cult’s “Running with the Wolves.”
15. Compared to this time last year, are you:
    • happier or sadder? Happier!
    • thinner or fatter? About the same, though my new employer feeds me a lot and I haven’t been walking or standing as much.
    • richer or poorer? A little bit richer, but still working on paying off that pile of debt!
16. What do you wish you’d done more of?
    Crafting, reading, hanging out with friends.
17. What do you wish you’d done less of?
    Wallowing in depression about money.
18. How will you be spending/did you spend Christmas?
    Over the last couple days, Jason and I were in South Dakota with my family. This afternoon we’re celebrating Bertine & Zach’s wedding. In another two weekends, we’ll be celebrating with Jason’s family in Iowa.
19. Did you fall in love in 2011?
    I fell more in love, if that’s even possible.
20. How many one-night stands?
    I try to stand at least once every night.
21. What was your favorite TV program?
    The Walking Dead. It makes me nervous and I can’t watch it without Jason being around, but it’s so well written and acted!
22. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
    I try not to use this word/feel this emotion.
23. What was the best book you read?
    The only book I read this year was The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom, but I did very much enjoy it.
24. What was/were your greatest musical discoveries?
    Florence + The Machine is probably my favorite from this year.
25. What did you want and get?
    For the last five months or so, I’ve been dying to trade in my Android for an iPhone, but it was never financially feasible. I was going to wait until next month to take the plunge, but my sweetie did some sneaking around and got me an iPhone for Christmas! I may or may not have cried (just a little bit). (Excitement, you know?) (Who am I kidding? I cry at everything.)
26. What was your favorite film of this year?
    Harry Potter!
27. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
    I turned 30 this past November. I had a couple friends visiting, Bridget and Lindy. We went to brunch at Fat Nat’s Eggs, visited the Museum of Russian Art and IKEA, then for dinner (with Jason and Kristi joining) we made Tater Tot Hot Dish and watched both of the final Harry Potter movies back-to-back. It was a great day!
28. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
    If our girl kitties would just (at least) tolerate each other.
29. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2011?
    Too poor to shop for clothing, make do with what I have.
30. What kept you sane?
    Jason.
31. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
    I very much enjoyed watching Will & Kate’s Royal Wedding (and seeing what she wore and her jewelry and etc. etc. etc.)
32. What political issue stirred you the most?
    I don’t know, I’m not really very political (out loud, I guess).
33. Who did you miss?
    Friends from South Dakota (I didn’t make it home enough this year).
34. Who was the best new person you met?
    I met a lot of new people this year — my new team at work, friends’ friends, or people just passing through my life’s adventures.
35. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011:
    Just breathe. Everything will work out.
36. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:
    Then lights they fill the air, or were they always there?
    I finally see it. I finally see it.
    And I heard the captain say, I heard the captain say,
    “You’re always close to it, so very close to it.”
    There’s so much energy in us.

Last weekend, I attended another wedding party for Bertine — also known as “my first quilting bee.” And, according to Bertine’s plan, the desire to make my own quilt is overwhelming lately.

Bertine has been quilting-central all year long, so a few of her family members decided to host the bee as a sort of wedding shower. The quilt we worked on was for Bertine and Zach, of course.

I can’t resist cake pops. Are they the best new thing ever, or what?

Bertine’s brother, Jens, was really into the whole production, too — which is awesome.

Step one: complete!

There is a lot of ironing involved in quilting. I will need to get a larger ironing board if I actual pursue my dream in 2012.

One of the duties for the day was to hold Kethry, Bertine’s new niece.

Here is where all of the pieces started to come together…

Bertine was using the “Caramel and Cocoa” pattern from Amanda Murphy.

See how it’s coming together? Pretty neat!

This is the prettiest bobbin case I’ve ever laid my eyes on.

I held Kethry for a while before I left. That was the easiest job of the day — she was sleeping the whole time! (What do babies dream about?)

I wanted to stay for the final product, but had evening plans with my mister. Luckily, Bertine posted a photo of the quilt top after everything had been sewn together — so I stole this from her Facebook page to share with you. Looks great to me!

My first quilt pattern (which cost a whole $1.50) arrived in the mail over the weekend. Hopefully I’ll get it made for sharing in early 2012!

how does this song make you feel? tonight it makes me feel a little blue, though i still like it a lot.

i heard it on my way home tonight, after attending my company’s holiday party. i’ve only been working there for a little over a month, so i don’t know many people beyond my immediate team. unfortunately being an introvert got the best of me tonight — trying to socialize while there’s a loud blues band playing? not happening. i just can’t stand trying to yell conversation at people.

i guess i’ll just have to keep trying. a little bit at a time.

on monday, i went to minnewebcon for the first time. i am a huge fan of more nerdy, web events happening in minneapolis! in fact, just days prior to this event, i attended a girls in tech meet-up which was awesome. and now, after meeting a bunch of cool women and getting reacquainted with some folks at umn, i’ve registered to attend a talk from jared spool at the end of the month and have seen two other minneapolis events for nerds bubble up. awesome!

i carpooled with my pal, bertine, and we arrived way too early in order to each get a free book at sign in. i scored zoe mickley gillenwater’s stunning css3, a book i’ve been coveting for months! i was excited. and i was also pleased when other attendees, who had missed out on scoring this awesome book, asked me if they could look at it.

the morning keynote session from luke wroblewski, titled “designing for today’s web,” told us that mobile use is growing by leaps and bounds faster than any other online tech has grown. there are 6 billion people on the planet, but over 10 billion devices that can access data on the web? we are seriously connected, people. (i have at least three – my droid phone, my mac laptop, and my wii. i would like to add an ipad to my arsenal, but i’m not completely sure why, other than the fact that they are neat.)

this session also reiterated the fact that i need to learn more about responsive web design. like, right now.

next i attended “online at a live event” with julia schrenkler. she live-blogs and tweets during mpr’s new program, wits. (she also works with a long-time friend, mary, so i had to introduce myself after the session.) take away thoughts about running an online event: everyone is a participant — make it easy for anyone to attend and for anyone to find the archive of your event. since wits is a live event with web coverage, she also gave the idea of hosting a web-only session during transition times such as intermissions.

i also had fun watching some “visible tweets” scroll behind her as the session became more of a brainstorming session. (ooh, pretty…)

i attended the “wordpress geekout!” and “just your type” sessions, but didn’t take many notes during either session. i was hoping the wordpress session would be a bit more advanced. i also need to try out a web-font service and improve my typography on the web. two good notes (group decisions) from the type session, though: (1) em units are more mobile-friendly than px units. (2) only use pt units in print stylesheets.

then, along came the geek girls, nancy lyons and meghan wilker, for a rousing second keynote. they reminded us that it isn’t technology that drives innovation, it’s users. and users are people — and we are all people! they encouraged us to develop our emotional intelligence, noting that we’re able to stay up-to-date with the latest technology, but we’ve forgotten about empathy.

here are a few ways they suggested that we could work on our emotional intelligence: (1) communicate openly (in the language of those that surround you) (2) listen and try to understand the meaning of what is being said (3) treat your client as the expert (for healthy, collaborative energy!) (4) push boundaries, but practice humility (5) don’t allow an “us vs. them” attitude

i’ll admit i was feeling sort of ill during the last two sessions that i attended. i don’t have many notes from either, but i’ll do my best to summarize my thoughts. “making a css framework that works for you” used examples from a department at the university that manages 200+ webpages. i again wish this session had been a little more technical, perhaps explaining the why’s and why not’s of coding decisions made within their framework. i don’t really remember what happened during this session, but i don’t remember seeing any css. “html5 design” with christopher schmitt was informative, though seemed to focus on the new audio and video attributes in html5. which is cool, but isn’t there so much more? maybe too much more for one 50-minute session. perhaps i should just read my html5 for web designers book from a book apart and then figure out what i need to be asking the html5 experts.

also, i need to try using modernizr.

christopher asked for a volunteer and since no one jumped at the chance during the final session of the day and she accidentally made eye contact, bertine got called to the front of the room. he asked her to list all of the html4 tags she could think of. she was speeding along quite nicely, then looked up at the crowd and got suddenly shy and forgot everything. since i’m such a good friend, i snapped a photo and tweeted it. bonus for bertine though: she’ll be receiving another tech book!

i also had thought that mr. schmitt seemed familiar, and he is — he’s co-founder of environment for humans, which is an organization that has run a few online conferences i’ve attended in the last year. it’s always nice to meet familiar folks from the web in person!

after the conference ended, bertine and i collected our adam turman prints and headed out for the official happy hour at grumpy’s. we probably got there too early (and left too early as a result), but when i got home i crashed pretty hard. i survived minnewebcon, though! and i hope i can attend again.

bertine thinks i could lead a session about how to code like it’s 1999: i’ve got a pretty in-depth method to the madness that is html emails.